Yellowstone is the sweeping landscape of the Dutton family ranch, which is often eclipsed by the actions of its larger-than-life characters & the intense (behind-the-scenes) drama that unfolds. But amid the relentless tension and tough exterior of ranch life, isn’t it the quieter scenes that often spark the most fiery discussions among fans?
Of course, there was one such moment—a bathroom dialogue between Monica (Kelsey Asbille) and her son Tate (Brecken Merrill)—that perhaps even Taylor Sheridan couldn’t defend. This event from season 4 stands out not for its explosive action, but for its controversial subtlety.
The scene’s approach to parenting & childhood, which sparked an online debate, has led some viewers to wonder if this slice-of-life from Season 4 should have been cut. Drawing from the insights of ardent Reddit users, let’s dig deeper into why it has become such a hot topic for discussion.
Revisiting the Questionable Yellowstone Scene Featuring Kelsey Asbille
Sure, when it comes to the hit series Yellowstone, fans are used to seeing intense action, dramatic family dynamics, and plenty of cowboy antics. However, there was a scene that had viewers scratching their heads & questioning the writing choices of the show’s creator, Taylor Sheridan.
The controversial episode in the fourth season in question involves Monica Dutton, played by Kelsey Asbille, giving her son Tate (Brecken Merrill), a bath. While this may sound innocent enough on the surface, fans were quick to point out that Tate is old enough to be bathing on his own without adult supervision.
The scene sparked a fiery debate on the Reddit thread, with some fans calling it “disturbing” and questioning the writer’s motives. User @Sutech2301 expressed their shock, saying:
That scene is beyond disturbing. Wtf is wrong with the person who wrote this?
Needless to say, the mastermind behind the show can’t defend this disputed scene. Some fans have faulted his script, suggesting that the writing fell short of capturing the complexity of Monica’s character and the situation at hand. One user, @cherrypez123, noted:
Oh it is s*xual, that scene where he’s telling his mum about his b*ners is so cringe and unnecessary.
Despite some fans attempting to justify Monica’s actions as a form of overcompensation for protecting her son, many can’t help but feel that the scene should have been skipped altogether. As another fan, @jacksheldon2, pointed out:
I thought that was beyond the pale. No kid does this let alone has his mother in the bathroom with him. I don’t know what the hell Taylor was thinking to write this.
While the Dutton family may be dealing with a myriad of problems and dangers at the ranch, the nature of this scene left a bad taste in the mouths of fans.
Tate’s Journey in Yellowstone: Is Taylor Sheridan Missing the Mark?
Tate Dutton has been at the center of criticism for his poorly written character development. Fans have expressed disappointment in the way his storyline has unfolded, with many pointing out that his dialogue feels forced and unrealistic for a child his age.
The character’s not-so-compelling storyline has drawn flak from fans who feel the writer did a “terrible job” of portraying him as occasionally irksome and cowardly (via the same Reddit thread). To quote one of the viewers (@Old-Rough-5681):
Kids are usually fine on shows as supporting characters but damn, the writers did a terrible job with Tate. Many things he does and says are so cringe. I’ve also noticed many of his lines, have many ‘adult’ words.
In addition to Tate’s character flaws, news of Kevin Costner’s exit from the show has only added to concerns about Yellowstone’s future. As the Paramount show continues to win hearts with its fierce drama and gorgeous scenery, it is clear that there are still some issues that need to be addressed.
Yellowstone is streaming on Peacock.
