“You think they’re your friends”: Young Hollywood Actors Can Learn 1 Specific Thing From Tom Cruise to Lead a Controversy Less Acting Career

So this is how Tom Cruise, known for his ‘stunts & stunts’, skillfully navigated the shark-infested waters of show business!

Tom Cruise and Young Actors

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  • Tom Cruise, a celebrated Hollywood actor, with a successful career that has been a testament to maintaining a clean public image.
  • His career has been devoid of scandals or notorious meltdowns, making him an inspiration to up-and-coming artists.
  • Cruise has a wealth of experience dealing with the murky waters of show business, as evidenced by his candid observations in Vanity Fair.
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Embarking on fame in Tinseltown can be both exhilarating and perilous. But what if young actors could harness one specific piece of wisdom from the legendary Tom Cruise—who will be turning 62 next month—to steer their careers toward calmer, controversy-free waters? 

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Reaching the heights of fame at a tender age, Cruise’s career has been a masterclass in maintaining a clean public image in such a not-so-easy profession. With a track record free of public scandals, or infamous meltdowns, his journey offers a beacon for emerging talents. In fact, as evidenced by his candid insights in Vanity Fair, he expertly navigated the shark-infested waters of show business, avoiding the bloodsuckers and sticking to his job.

Tom Cruise, a celebrated Hollywood actor, with a successful career that has been a testament to maintaining a clean public image.
Tom Cruise as Pete Mitchell in Top Gun: Maverick (2024) | Paramount Pictures

Channeling this discipline, aspiring actors can learn to differentiate between the true allies and the clingers-on, creating a focused career inspired by one of the most enduring icons of cinema.

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Mastering the Art of Controversy-Free Acting: Insights from Tom Cruise 

Young actors can easily become embroiled in scandals & controversy in the entertainment industry. However, there is one Hollywood veteran who has managed to navigate his career without falling into the traps that have ensnared many of his peers. Of course, that actor is none other than Tom Cruise.

From his early days in films like Risky Business and Top Gun, Cruise has always maintained a squeaky-clean image. He has never been involved in any alcohol scandals or has never let himself be dragged into messy public feuds. So, what can young Hollywood actors learn from Cruise to lead a controversy-free career?

First and foremost, it’s important to surround yourself with the right people, as the actor said (via Vanity Fair):

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There are people out there who are so good at sucking blood that you don’t even realize it, you know? You think they’re your friends, and really they’re hanging on to your coattails, taking a ride.

Tom Cruise's career has been devoid of scandals or notorious meltdowns, making him an inspiration to up-and-coming artists.
Tom Cruise as Captain Pete “Maverick” | Paramount Pictures

Cruise also spoke about the importance of recognizing when someone is not truly looking out for your best interests. The Oscar-nominated actor warned of those who may seem like friends, but are really just looking to ride your coattails”. By surrounding yourself with genuine, supportive people who truly care about your success, you can avoid being led astray.

In the actor’s words:

They can seem like the nicest people, but are they contributing to you as an artist? Or are they sucking off of you? … It’s subtle sometimes, the invalidation you get. It’s all done in the I’m just trying to be your friend. I’m just trying to help you.

Additionally, the War of the Worlds star emphasized the importance of staying focused on your work. By staying true to your passion for acting and avoiding distractions, you can build a successful and controversy-free career.

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How Tom Cruise Maintains Peak Physical Fitness at 61

Tom Cruise, who is 61 years old, has the physique and movement of a man half his age. He has spent the last forty years or more scaling skyscrapers and jumping out of airplanes for his movies.

Seeing the Top Gun actor put in so much effort at a time when people of his age (or over 60) are recovering from hip injuries is a welcome change of pace. One wonders how on earth he has managed to continuously deliver his best work for such a long time. 

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Tom Cruise in War Of The Worlds | Paramount Pictures

Interview Magazine asked the actor in 1986 if being attractive was a curse. In response, he said: 

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I don’t know [laughs] I think I have the ability to look different ways. I look good just as much as I look bad. I mean, I don’t look like Paul Newman or Beatty.

Not only does Cruise have the physique of a man half his age, but he also moves like one (remember that fight scene from Mission Impossible: Rogue Nation). Middlesex University Sports Scientist Anne Elliott stated (via Men’s Health):

How we move conveys energy and youth – not how buff we are. Regularly switching up cardio and strength work with something like fencing or climbing – like Cruise – maintains flexibility and balance: the first two things that give your age away. 

Thus, young actors can, and must, learn a valuable lesson from Tom Cruise about how to lead a controversy-free career. By surrounding themselves with the right people and staying focused on their jobs, they can avoid the pitfalls that have derailed many actors in the past. 

Cruise is currently filming the eighth untitled Mission: Impossible film, helmed by Christopher McQuarrie. It is scheduled for release on May 23, 2025.

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