“I was scared that it might cause trouble”: Jim Parsons Was Terrified of Revealing One Secret He Feared Would Destroy The Big Bang Theory

Jim Parsons feared his sexuality might risk his job in TBBT.

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  • During his initial years in TBBT, Jim Parsons ensured to not speak about his sexuality publicly.
  • This was due to the actor's fear of losing his gig following the stigma surrounding LGBTQ+ people.
  • Eventually, Parsons did open up about being gay and even tied the knot with his boyfriend in 2017.
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Before starring as Sheldon Cooper in The Big Bang Theory, the actor was mostly notable for playing a man raised by wolves in the hilarious 2003 Quiznos commercial. However, this changed following the success of TBBT, which shot him to stardom and made him one of the biggest names in TV and was even offered an eight-figure salary to continue playing Sheldon.

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But despite being one of the top names at the time, the actor feared talking about his sexuality during the sitcom’s initial years following the stigma surrounding LGBTQ+ people at the time.

Jim Parsons Initially Avoided Speaking About His Sexuality

Jim Parsons as Sheldon Cooper in TBBT
Jim Parsons as Sheldon Cooper | CBS.

The 2010s were a drastically different time for the LGBTQ+ community compared to recent times, and Jim Parsons feared that his sexuality would risk his job in The Big Bang Theory.

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While the actor never denied being gay, following the stigma surrounding it at the time, the actor made sure to not speak about it publically.

Jim Parsons as Sheldon Cooper
A still from The Big Bang Theory | CBS

He recalled:

So I was scared. I wasn’t scared about losing my job. And I wasn’t scared to the point of denying my sexuality. But I was scared enough to make it my mission not to talk about it.

However, The Big Bang Theory star did open up about it eventually in 2012 with an interview with The New York Times, stating, 

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I can’t remember the exact question, but he asked about something to the effect of, ‘Was it more meaningful to be a part of The Normal Heart being gay? yes. I remember leaving there going, well, I sort of just took the back door out, as it were. I remember thinking it was kind of poetically perfect.

Moreover, the actor tied the knot with his boyfriend Todd Spiewak, known for projects like Spoiler Alert and A Kid Like Jake, in 2017.

Chuck Lorres Initially Imagined Sheldon Cooper as Asexual

Jim Parsons and Mayim Bialik in The Big Bang Theory | CBS
A still from The Big Bang Theory | CBS

As for his character, Sheldon Cooper, who got engaged with Mayim Bialik‘s Amy, showrunner Chuck Lorre initially imagined him as asexual in the initial seasons of the sitcom. So when it came to introducing a potential love interest for the character, Lorre ensured that it wasn’t rushed.

[When we] … eventually did enter Sheldon into a relationship … we did it very slowly, and in a way that made us feel like we hadn’t done a 90-degree turn at all.

But while this naturally fitted in with the character’s story, interestingly, Bialik felt she would be axed from the show early, and was taken by surprise when she was eventually made a regular.

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The Big Bang Theory can be streamed on Max. 

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Written by Santanu Roy

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Santanu Roy is a film enthusiast with a deep love for the medium of animation while also being obsessed with The Everly Brothers, Billy Joel, and The Platters. Having expertise in everything related to Batman, Santanu spends most of his time watching and learning films, with Martin Scorsese and Park Chan-wook being his personal favorites. Apart from pursuing a degree in animation, he also possesses a deep fondness for narrative-driven games and is currently a writer at Fandomwire with over 1500 articles.