“After Matthew died I could start watching the show again”: FRIENDS Was Not the Same For Lisa Kudrow After Her Co-star Matthew Perry’s Tragic Death

Matthew Perry’s loss turned ‘FRIENDS’ into a bittersweet comfort for Lisa Kudrow, who now watches it not just for the laughs, but for him.

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  • Before Matthew Perry's death, Lisa Kudrow avoided watching ‘FRIENDS’ as she found it difficult to bear.
  • Perry’s unfortunate death shifted Kudrow's focus from herself to Perry, enabling her to watch the show.
  • Kudrow expressed deep admiration for Perry's portrayal of Chandler, which she found unexpectedly brilliant.
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Ask any FRIENDS who their favorite character is in the show and we are almost a hundred percent sure that Matthew Perry’s Chandler and Lisa Kudrow’s Phoebe will be on the top of the list. From Phoebe’s Smelly Cat to the mystery behind Chandler’s job, could there BE any more love for them in our hearts? We don’t think so.

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Matthew Perry and Lisa Kudrow as Chandler and Phoebe in FRIENDS | Credits: Warner Bros. Television

After Matthew Perry’s heartbreaking demise last year, his co-stars were obviously shaken at their core, as were the fans. His death brought a change in Lisa Kudrow’s life as it allowed her to finally sit down and watch the show, something she wasn’t really interested in before.

How Matthew Perry’s Death Changed FRIENDS for Lisa Kudrow

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A still from FRIENDS | Credits: Warner Bros. Television

Lisa Kudrow joined popular late-night TV host Conan O’Brien for his podcast, Conan O’Brien Needs a Friend, where the two discussed everything from FRIENDS to her new show, Time Bandits.

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It has been over two decades since the last episode of FRIENDS was dropped. O’Brien asked Kudrow if she could bring herself to watch the episodes and if they ever affect her in any way stating, “Do you have distance on that now? Like, when you see—’cos it’s ubiquitous—when you see a Friends [episode] on, does that affect you in any way or is it just—”

Little did O’Brien know that his guest would have an answer that would send all of us FRIENDS fans bawling and reaching out for tissues.

According to Kudrow, she could not bring herself to watch the show “at all” as she would be unable to “bear it.” This is not unheard of as many celebrities usually prefer distancing themselves from their own work.

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However, everything changed after Matthew Perry passed away. Kudrow was finally able to bring herself to watch the show. How? Well, because it’s no longer about her, it’s about Perry now.

The Easy A actress stated,

Well, I used to not be able to watch it at all. I mean, I’d see it on and be, like, mildly interested and then I’d see me and say ‘That’s enough of that, I can’t bear it,’ and then—well, listen, after Matthew died I could start watching the show again because it wasn’t about me, it had to do with him for some reason.

She admitted that while she didn’t sit down and start the show right from season one, she sure spends a lot of time watching its marathons on TV. In fact, she sometimes spends the entire day bingeing on FRIENDS.

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How Matthew Perry Made Conan O’Brien Jealous

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Conan O’Brien and Lisa Kudrow in CONAN | Credits: Team Coco via YouTube

Kudrow and O’Brien were in a relationship for five years and broke up just a year before FRIENDS began filming. Clearly, the two have remained on good terms with each other.

However, when Kudrow called him up praising Perry and his hilarious personality, O’Brien couldn’t help but feel pangs of jealousy. He recalled how the actress called him up one fine day “raving” on about Perry and how funny he was.

O’Brien stated,

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You called me up, and you were raving about Matthew. Yes. And you were saying, he’s so funny … There was part of me that was jealous. Like, I was okay. I make you laugh pretty hard, and you were like, ‘No, you don’t understand. This guy’s really [funny].’

Kudrow replied that while there’s no doubt to the fact that O’Brien is one of the funniest people she knows, Perry was just on a whole new level in her eyes.

You are the funniest person I know, one of the funniest people I know … that’s just a fact. But he was such a huge—I thought that Chandler character, when I read it, I thought ‘Oh, they have a gay character. That’s good. I thought—that’s all I heard, that’s all I heard, you know?

And so, at the table read, I just did a double take at him, ‘oh my God.’ I never in a million years could have envisioned anyone playing the character like that and with his own rhythm and everything, it’s his own.

Despite his initial jealousy, O’Brien, too, agrees with Kudrow and acknowledges Perry’s impeccable comic timing.

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