“I think I just ran away”: Ben Affleck Took a Major Career Decision Right after Breaking up With Jennifer Lopez

Ben Affleck’s post-breakup career pivot with Jennifer Lopez, including his retreat from Hollywood to Georgia and acting career reevaluation.

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  • Ben Affleck’s split with Jennifer Lopez led him to retreat from Hollywood, rethinking his career path.
  • The intense media scrutiny and breakup nearly drove Affleck and JLo to quit Hollywood altogether.
  • Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck have officially finalized their divorce, ending their high-profile relationship.
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Ben Affleck’s career took an unexpected turn right after his high-profile split with Jennifer Lopez. The breakup, which was a tabloid sensation, sparked more than just media frenzy—it led Affleck to make a dramatic career decision that had fans and insiders talking. Faced with the emotional fallout, he chose to pivot away from Hollywood’s spotlight and into a new chapter. 

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Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck in Gigli | Sony Pictures Releasing
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck in a still from Gigli | Columbia Pictures

Dive into the behind-the-scenes drama of how a personal split led to a major career shift for Affleck, reshaping his trajectory in ways no one saw coming.

Affleck and JLo: How Bennifer’s Drama Nearly Derailed Their Careers

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck in Martin Brest's Gigli (2003)
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck in a still from Gigli | Columbia Pictures

You wouldn’t believe it, but Ben Affleck once thought about ditching Hollywood altogether. Yup, the same guy who’s now synonymous with Batman and Oscar wins! 

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Turns out, his epic love story with Jennifer Lopez was a double-edged sword. Both of their careers took a wild turn in the early 2000s, and being the IT couple, they were blinded by the spotlight. Both the tabloids and the pressure were at an all-time high. 

Affleck spilled the beans in a 2012 GQ interview, saying he felt like he was in the crosshairs. After a string of box office bombs and that whole Bennifer drama, Georgia became his escape—a place to regroup and rethink his life. It was a total career time-out, he confessed: 

I think I just ran away. You can only handle so much. I moved for a while to this place in Georgia that I have, was able to get away, by and large, from stuff. Come up with a plan for how to do something with my life that doesn’t put me in the crosshairs of this sort of thing.

But hold up; it wasn’t just Ben who was feeling the heat. JLo was contemplating a similar exit strategy too. She told NPR it was a close call—the tabloids, the breakup, the pressure—it all piled on. But Penelope Cruz convinced her to stay in the industry. JLo revealed:

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Yeah, we were on a plane together, and we started talking, and I was just like, I just don’t know. And she was like, you are crazy. You have to – no, Jennifer, we all look at you, and we – and I was like, wow.

So, there you have it. Bennifer wasn’t just a love story; it was a career-defining moment for both stars. Affleck hit the pause button, while JLo almost did the same. But they both came back stronger, proving that even the biggest stars need a little downtime to recharge.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck Officially Finalize Their Divorce

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck in a still from Gigli | Columbia Pictures
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck in a still from Gigli | Columbia Pictures

Bennifer 2.0 is officially over! Sources say these two lovebirds have finalized their divorce papers but are yet to file them. A source told DailyMail

They finalized the divorce papers with her a month ago, but are waiting for the right time to drop them. Honestly, in the end they could not come to a compromise. What they had before is gone and they have both accepted it.

The couple’s been living separate lives for months, and Affleck’s solo moves—buying a new crib in LA, skipping JLo’s birthday and their second wedding anniversary—have been as subtle as a brick to the face. Friends say it’s been a total heartbreak for Jennifer.  

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Written by Heena Singh

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Heena Singh is a writer at FandomWire, spent the last two years making waves in entertainment journalism. With a knack for digging up blockbuster celebrity scoops and an uncanny nose for the latest buzz, Heena’s articles bring a fresh and fun perspective to life. When she’s not conquering writing challenges, you’ll find her curled up in bed, peacefully sleeping.