Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s relationship has been a rollercoaster of ups and downs, leaving fans heartbroken. Despite their passionate love, the couple has struggled to make their marriage work, with two breakups and two divorces.
But not all moments of their time together were sad; back in 2016, Lopez confirmed a long-standing rumor about their first relationship. She revealed that she had a significant influence on Affleck’s style and taste in clothing. The actress would often offer advice and tips, which the Batman actor appreciated.
Ben Affleck’s fashion transformation: a lasting memory
When they were first dating, fans noticed a change in Ben Affleck‘s style and speculated whether it might be Jennifer Lopez‘s influence. Later on the talk show Watch What Happens Live, host Andy Cohen asked about this particular rumor.
![Jennifer Lopez as Maya in Second Act.](https://fwmedia.fandomwire.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/22043109/jennifer-lopez-in-second-act-1024x576.jpg)
I do that [styling him], and guys do that to girls too.
Lopez answered affirmatively, confirming the rumor that she often helped her then-boyfriend select outfits. The actress was known for her impeccable tastes and trend-setting sense, which she gleefully shared with Affleck, who was still trying to find his fashion footing.
I did kind of like say, ‘You need something, you’re a movie star. You should wear a suit.’
The Second Act actress encouraged him to experiment with new looks; Affleck, in turn, was receptive to Lopez’s advice. She told Cohen that he didn’t do anything that was not favorable to him, stating that she didn’t want to force him.
![Be Affleck as Batman in Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice.](https://fwmedia.fandomwire.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/22043119/ben-affleck-in-batman-1024x576.jpg)
He was into it. He didn’t do anything he didn’t wanna do.
Together, they made a stylish pair, with Lopez often guiding the Hypnotic actor’s fashion choices. His sleek suits, tailored white shirts, and overcoats soon became a staple at the red carpet and other events.
A deep emotional connection: love that couldn’t last
The couple’s relationship was marked by a deep emotional connection but also intense media scrutiny and personal struggles. Despite their best efforts to make it work, they found themselves amid divorce proceedings once again.
![Ben Affleck as Danny Rourke in Hypnotic.](https://fwmedia.fandomwire.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/22043128/ben-affleck-in-hypnotic-1024x543.jpg)
He had some good moments, fashion moments, when he was with me.
Back in 2016, after they had separated for the first time, Lopez looked back fondly at the shared memories. When they reconciled, fans had hope that maybe the star-crossed lovers could finally achieve their happy ending.
But it was not meant to be, showcasing the demise of a love that once seemed so strong. Lopez and Affleck’s convoluted story is a reminder that even the most intense relationships can be fragile and fleeting.