“She exploited those feelings”: Despite a Red Flag Herself, Former Acting Guru Blamed Marilyn Monroe for Using Her When She Abandoned Her

Despite a Red Flag Herself, Former Acting Guru Blamed Marilyn Monroe for Using Her When She Abandoned Her
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There once lived a woman whose dreams of becoming an actress burned brighter than the stars above. Marilyn Monroe, a sadly misunderstood soul, yearned to become an actress, but the world seemed determined to cast her in a different light. Battling accusations and fake judgments, she fought tenaciously to rise above the challenges that threatened to dim her shine.

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Yet, like a shooting star, Marilyn Monroe defied the darkness, ultimately becoming not only an amazing actress but also an enduring icon—a testament to the resilience of a dreamer who refused to surrender to the odds stacked against her.

Marilyn Monroe and Natasha Lytess: A Tale of Muse and Mentor

Natasha Lytess was a great influence on Marilyn Monroe
Natasha Lytess was a great influence on Marilyn Monroe

In the ornate world of Hollywood, where dreams collide with reality, a unique and stirring tale unfolded – one that saw two extraordinary women forging an unbreakable bond amidst the spotlight’s glare. Marilyn Monroe, the epitome of beauty and talent, and Natasha Lytess, her devoted drama coach. As they worked tirelessly on the set of Don’t Bother to Knock in 1951, their camaraderie grew beyond the professional realm. Sharing laughter and dreams, they became more than just a teacher and student; they became friends who painted the town with their infectious energy.

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But fate, with its sly sense of humor, had other plans in store. When Marilyn Monroe found love in the arms of Joe DiMaggio, Lytess’ heart felt a pang of jealousy. She couldn’t help but see Joe  DiMaggio as a rival for Monroe’s affections. It was as if a tempest had invaded their serene paradise. Yet, Marilyn Monroe, with her grace and compassion, tried to weave peace between the two most important people in her life. But like opposing magnets, Natasha Lytess and DiMaggio couldn’t find common ground. Their simmering tensions kept casting shadows over the shimmering Hollywood hills.

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Directors like Fritz Lang and Howard Hawks, mesmerized by Monroe’s presence, saw Natasha Lytess as a distraction. Uncomfortable with her omnipresence, they erected walls to keep her at bay. But Lytess’, undeterred and fiercely loyal, would sneak back onto the sets, like a guardian angel hovering over her cherished pupil. Amidst the challenges, one man stood by Lytess’ side – Billy Wilder. He recognized the magic Lytess brought to Monroe’s performances, like the missing brushstroke on a masterpiece. He knew that behind every great star, there was a dedicated coach, who shaped dreams into reality.

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A Tale of Two Stars: The Interwoven Lives of Marilyn Monroe and Natasha Lytess

Marilyn Monroe
Marilyn Monroe

As the years passed, Lytess’ influence on Marilyn Monroe’s choices grew, sometimes causing ripples of concern among others. Co-star Alex D’Arcy, a witness to their evolving dynamic, feared that Lytess’ guidance might lead Marilyn Monroe astray, like a wayward compass seeking its true north. Such growing influence also caused ripples in the tranquil waters of director-actor relationships. Otto Preminger, a visionary director in his own right, couldn’t help but clash with Natasha Lytess. As Monroe’s unwavering trust in her coach intensified, she occasionally favored Natasha Lytess’ insights over the director’s vision. Sparks flew, but through it all, Monroe remained steadfast by Lytess’ side.

Marilyn Monroe
Marilyn Monroe

In 1956, Marilyn Monroe ventured into new artistic territory, seeking guidance from Lee Strasberg at the Actors Studio. Like a dandelion in the wind, Lytess watched helplessly as Monroe embraced this new chapter without a word of explanation. As the hands of the clock neared its final hour in 1964, Lytess, battling cancer, cast her parting glance upon their intricate relationship:

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“I wish I had one-tenth of Marilyn’s cleverness. The truth is, my life and my feelings were very much in her hands. I was the older one, the teacher, but she knew the depth of my attachment to her, and she exploited those feelings as only a beautiful younger person can. She said she was the needy one. Alas, it was the reverse. My life with her was a constant denial of myself.”

In the end, Marilyn Monroe and Natasha Lytess’ story is a reminder that even amidst fame’s brightest lights, the heart seeks connection and understanding. Theirs was a tale of dreams entwined, a dance between star and guide, where the applause of the world vied with the whispers of a friendship that stood the test of time. 

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Source: INFINITE MARILYN MONROE

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Written by Chandni Arora

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Chandni, an English Honours student, is always ready to explore new things, listen to podcasts, engage with quirky articles, and read poetry. She's a writer with a zest for life and insatiable curiosity about the world around her. You will likely find her wandering with a cup of coffee in one hand and a book or paintbrushes and canvas in the other.